1. The "from" address is spoofed by this virus, is he sure it's coming from
your IP address? He might be right, if he's looking at the actual
transaction logs from his server and sees the source IP of the connections.
(or the right fields in the header)
2. That virus uses it's own SMTP engine, and therefore will not use your
Exchange server or your Symantec Mail Security program that runs there.
Your PIX is the last line of defense if your desktop AV software has let you
down. Does it (the PIX) know how to look in outbound SMTP email and scan it
for viruses? If not, it's very possible that your PC is indeed sending this
stuff out. Some versions of the mytob apparently do other sorts of connects
(sql, network shares, half a dozen other various vulnerabilities) that again
won't go through your mail security program, and will fall upon your PIX to
block.
-Russ.